RELEASING THE PELVIC FLOOR
If the pelvic floor muscles are tight, it can present as back and hip tightness or soreness.
In order to get it to relax, we need to stretch it in different planes. I recommend you play around with all the exercises in this section. Then, on a daily basis, do the ones that really resonate with you and help your symptoms.
It’s very common to have extremely tight outer hips. It happens if the outer hip muscles take over and doing the work of the core. This may present as: IT band syndrome, TFL syndrome, sciatica, and piriformis syndrome. These exercises will help you!
3 Exercises to Release the Pelvic Floor and Hips
For men and women
Golden nugget: You can hum in a lower tone when you exhale: it helps cue the pelvic floor to settle, relax and lengthen
Exercise 1: Breathing and Pelvic Floor Release: to address pelvic floor and TVA tightness
Use breathing to get the pelvic floor to release and the TVA to release.
Helpful for improving diastasis and low belly pooch.
Exercise 2: Quadruped Hip Shift (to focus on on 1 side of the pelvic floor)
The hip shift allows everything to loosen up and move like it should.
The reciprocal motion from side to side will make your hips feel happy.
Intent: changing the length-tension relationship of the deep hip rotators (especially the obturator internus), will positively influence the tension produced through the pelvic floor.
Exercise 3: Standing Split-Stance Hinge
This will target the glute med and adductors and really release the hip and pelvic floor area. You’ll move better and feel better.
QUICK Routine to Release the Pelvic Floor
Supine Butterfly (Inner thighs)
Hip Flexor Stretch
Figure 4
Happy Baby Stretch:
BREATHE, DECOMPRESS, RELAX & STRETCH
Got low back pain and hip tension? Got a hypertonic pelvic floor? Then do these 3 exercises with the intent of releasing your pelvic floor. I also recommend these for prophylaxis. Get into the habit of doing them regularly and whenever needed! You don't have to have a Siamese cat sit on your chest, but listening to her purr and breathe does really relax me
THE CRP to RELEASE THE PSOAS
The psoas the only muscle that connects the upper and lower body (it crosses 3 zones: the lumbar spine, pelvis and hip).
Notice how deeply centred the psoas muscle is.
Notice in the diagrams below that there are myofascial connections between the diaphragm and psoas. Also notice the psoas and the diaphragm come together at a junction point known as the solar plexus.
Because the diaphragm has myofascial connections to the psoas, this means:
The psoas is a secondary stabilizer. It is NOT a primary stabilizer. The TVA is the primary stabilizer. But because most people have a weak TVA, they use the psoas out of context to compensate for the TVA not doing its job. Combine this with excessive dosages of time spent sitting, and you have a recipe for fatigued and tight psoas muscles.
Therefore, the psoas is typically misused and overused, and needs release.
One way to "fix your psoas" is to ensure you can properly engage your TVA. If your TVA is strong, you will be able to stabilize your spine and pelvis, and this will allow your psoas to go about its business.
Ideally, we want a supple psoas. When the psoas is tight, the pelvic floor is not relaxed, and this can affect your spine, genitals and sexual energy. In order to experience a full body orgasm, the psoas must be relaxed. If it is tense, then it's not possible to have a full body orgasm. Therefore, the psoas links breath to movement, feelings, energy and healing.
Releasing the Psoas: The Constructive Rest Position (CRP) is an easy position you can adopt for 10 minutes to relax your psoas. Let your knees rest together (put your feet wider apart, if it helps you relax). In this position, gravity releases the psoas and you’ll feel instantly more peaceful and comfortable. In this position, use your NASAL breath to massage the psoas muscles. Here’s how: First start nasal breathing, connecting it to your core: inhale and the lungs fill with air. FULLY exhale (so the diaphragm fully ascends and relaxes) and the TVA scoops. The full exhalation is the key to getting the psoas to relax. Use the inhalation to massage the psoas. Get into a rhythm with this. Then imagine your nasal inhalation and exhalations travelling up and down your spine (up and down all your chakras). When I do this, I start to experience a warm and tingly expanding feeling towards the end of my inhalation. Keep directing your breath up and down your chakras. You can even direct your breath to specific body parts, like your psoas (to massage it and help it relax). The key is to let go and move into the experience.
It can become very intense, euphoric and orgasmic. This is a sign you have found the connection between your pelvic floor, psoas, TVA, diaphragmatic breaths and your sexual life force energy. This is how you get connected to your own body, which is necessary if you want to learn how to move with the correct muscles.
So how do you tap into this even further? With vaginal weightlifting to strengthen the pelvic floor. The pelvic floor facilitates TVA engagement and makes orgasms more intense. Doing this really helped me become connected to my body; it helped me learn how to tap into my life force energy to "heal and reset myself". I also noticed my abs became more supple, and I was able to learn how to "belly roll", stomach vacuum, and do body waves. It's really helped me learn how to open up to pleasure, without resistance.
I wanted to share this with you so you can have better intent when you are learning diaphragmatic breathing, when you are vaginal weightlifting, and when you are training your TVA. Mastering these things will open up a whole new world for you physically, spiritually and sexually.
FAQ: What if you’re hyper mobile?
Hypermobility: This means your joints, ligaments, tendons are excessively stretchy.
Hypermobility affects ligaments supporting pelvic organs.
Connective tissue laxity increases vulnerability during pregnancy and childbirth.
Results in pelvic floor dysfunction, including prolapse, back, and hip pain.